Thank you guys very much for the input (and not being pricks).  I am sorry I even asked the question now, but we all have to learn somehow.  I am learning some coding and trying to learn other things but I am finding it especially hard finding where to start.  All the tutorials I look at seem to start somewhere I am unaware of.  I guess that just means I need to learn more coding.  Any suggestions? I'd really like to start DOING something, like learning proper coding; as long as I'm not wasting my time.
Thank you for the comments so far, they've helped a lot.